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So I was confused about whether I liked-loved this guy, and yesterday, we were in school and were allowed to wear hats. Like hat day, yk? So obviously I wore a hat, and he did too. But near the end of school, in the last hour (we have it together), he was like putting his hat on our other friends/classmates and idk why, kinda like a joke ig. The thing is, he was kinda being rough as a joke with other people, like just putting his hat on their head and pushing the hat down and stuff, and violently putting the hat on others and violently taking it off, I'm not a master at explaining but I tried (if it's at least a bit confusing and please let me know and I'll try to answer your question or try to explain the situation more). It's like he was just being rough as a joke, but not too rough to hurt them literally. Then he came up to me, I already had a hat on but that didn't matter because I knew he could still put it on or take off my hat and do the same thing to me, right? But do you know what I got? He tilted my hat down a bit so it kinda covered my face, I put my hands on my hat and was curious about what he was gonna do and I didn't want him to violently put his hat on my head like he did to the others. And I was kinda like trying to look up and stuff because yk, I was trying to figure out what he was trying to do. Let me tell you something, he was being gentle to me??? He literally tilted my hat down gently and put his hat on top of my hat gently as well. I was like "??" standing clueless lol. Remind you, this was when we were all cleaned up and packed up, we have like the best last hour teacher so she let us clean and get ready a little early. So when we got dismissed, he took his hat off and he left with me...he does that all the time now, starting like a month or something ago. After that time, I couldn't forget how gentle he was to me lmao. Why not to other people? Do I fall kind-of-in-love too easily?? Just because a person I was questioning is being gentle with me? Honestly, I don't really know at this point. I feel like we might like each other somehow but is just scared to tell one another or idk. I mean, his friend teases him when we're talking to each other, his friend is quite childish so he's like, "C'mon bro, we know you like her" or "Bro tell her you like her" and "M he likes you" (M, my initial). But I'm pretty sure he's just teasing. I kinda just don't know what to do at this point, idk if I like, love, or just think of him as a normal friend. Maybe I'm thinking too much and we don't feel that way for each other?? Idk.
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Every sensation and emotion does not require a label, explanation, story, or conclusion. Enjoy your time with him and let him get to know you a little more each time. Just be very clear about who you are and what you stand for and let this be known in a quiet way. There is an old saying that goes like this; "If you don't stand for something, you will fall for anything".
And yes, you are over thinking this. Just be yourself and don't forget to have fun and laugh a lot.
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