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Its my first time to write on novni. I dont know what will be the result. I need someone to talk to but my friend are not around. I live my life around my partner. i am shy to talk to my parents, brother and sister. I dont know if i need somebody to talk to or to just share what i am going thru. I have lots of stories to share. Ill start with these scenario.
I make a simple program for payroll and billing. I study and spend time in order to make a very nice program that will help here a lot. it will reduce her stress and most important it will give her more time for me and our son. She always complaining she wants to rest and have more time. that is why Iam making programs. She is always tired. Yes she is a career woman. FYI, Iam also working. we are the owner of the company. The difference is I can manage my time and easily adapt what is the job assigned on me. For my background and to be fair, i am an ordinary husband. but im working at home and taking care of our son.
Now, I happily called her and share the program that i made. I start sharing the video to her and start explaining what she would do. Sadly, while explaining, she said to me stop, she want to rest in her office. give her 30 mins to rest. WTF, I dont know if she is interested or not. Im so disappointed what happen. I immediately cut the messenger and I delete the programs that I made. I want to cry, i want to shout or worse i want to throw my laptop. I dont know what to say. I am speechless. I think i made a useless program. She is not interested! She doesnt care how i feel. she always think of her feelings. Its so sad. I feel like thrash. I wasted time and effort. I dont know what will happen. I dont want to talk to her. i just want to shut up and keep quiet or just wait. I dont want to exert effort on giving her something that she would benefit.
Thank you for reading and spending time to my miserable story.
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Hi!
First of all, it's clearly you're a good husband, for wanting and trying to help your wife to reduse the stress and also for wanting more quality time with your family.
Second of all, I think you could talk calmly with her and tell her how you feel, because your feelings are valid as well, and if you don't tell her, she might not know.
(I'm sorry if my english is not good)
ReplyShe asked for a bit of time. It's not an unreasonable request to want to be refreshed and ready to learn. It's very difficult to retain information when your body and mind is exhausted.
Everyone reacts to stressful situations differently. Some are like you, organized and methodical. Others just barrel through and develop better strategies for the next time. Some shut down completely.
Try asking her how you can help. Jumping in and offering ways to help is great, but simply asking her how you can help is just as beneficial as well.
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