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So there's this guy. Isn't that how a lot of these go? And everyone thought we would end up together (including myself), until he started dating around and talking to me less. Which was fine, you know, until I found myself a wonderful, sweet man. Then it got weird.
I love my boyfriend and he's so nice to me, it's crazy, but there isn't that same spark that I had with my 7-year-long crush. I'm scared because I still always think about the other guy and it doesn't help that he's part of our friend group.
He still stares at me when he thinks I'm not looking and he talks to me like he always has. I would be lying if I said I don't think about him.
I guess, what I need to know is: should I stay with my loving boyfriend who I see a future with, but doesn't connect with me the same way the other guy does OR should I tell my boyfriend the truth, ruin everything, yet tell the other guy my feelings (with the possibility of him rejecting them)?
I know I am a horrible person. I know I should just focus on my current relationship, which I do.
But why can't I stop thinking about other guy? What should I do?
I feel like I'm losing something important either way. But what if soul mates are real? What of the other guy is the one I'm supposed to be with?
I truly am terrible. I'm sorry for you who read this post. This is pathetic of me to even think, let alone post.
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In my experience, soul mates are not a thing. Throughout your life on earth, you may be compatible with multiple people and even love them deeply.
Someone who loves you is not just nice and kind, but also shows unconditional love.
Good luck on your journey.
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