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Novnis Please Help me ☹
There is this guy That I neither like nor I love . But since I get attached to people easily , If He does not talk to me or text me or call me , I get anxious and sad . And I feel like He abondoned me or something .
This case happened to me with many other guys .
Is it a trauma response to my struggling days in my childhood ? And is it I don't have a father That's why Im searching for Men's Love and support and attention , Just to replace the fatherhood's emptiness , Because my dad never gave me love I needed .. ??
How can I cure myself from This Please? I'm really struggling .
It's not like I want to date or marry .. Aah What to do ? 😪😪
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ReplyYou have to occupy your time with something besides them. Go find out who you are and become someone you want to spend with
ReplyI'm not a therapist, so I probably can't give you solid answers as to why you do the things you have done. I would highly suggest if you want to unpack your past that you do it with a therapist.
However, based on what I've read in your comments and what I feel I know, it sounds like to me you could be dealing with some sort of attachment complex. Again, I can't give you solid advice on how to deal with it professionally, but I can tell you that if you take the time to resolve your own traumas, you might be able to learn how to stand on your own. Going along with what someone else said, try to find something else to do that brings you and you only fulfillment and try to find out who you are.
ReplyGirly It's okay to feel like this but I will advise you to get a little guidance from a professional and someone who is well versed in this area of work.
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