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people on social media will put things like "gay" or "neurodivergent" or "adhd" or whatever into their bios. it's the gen z emo teens mostly. i would NEVER do this and btw i have autism and ocd and im queer. i think these are things that only matter to yourself personally. like i really dont dont dont care if someone has adhd. it's like people make it their whole personality trait like wtf. having mental illnesses is NOT quirky. and for the sexuality thing i don't really mind it that much. but like tiktok is not a dating app. no one really cares if you like men or women. people will probably just flame you in comments anyway. also pronouns too. i don't have a huge issue with pronouns but to me they really are not that big a deal. if someone is talking to you they are not gonna be using your pronouns. those are literally only used when someone is talking to someone else about you. if someone used the wrong pronouns for me i wouldn't put in my bio i would just correct that person. or even better i would just get over myself really.
also a LOT of people are trans nowadays. most of them ftm. or afab and non binary. this is extremely obviously a trend thing. like with the mental disorder thing. people think it will make them special. like compare this to 1990 or something. it's also young people. and what do you get when you have a generation of teenage females (at birth at least) addicted to their phones? this apparently. and with the dyed hair and weird skirts and intense eyeliner there is no way i'm taking you seriously. you could at least try to act your age instead of calling everyone a "normie." and don't get me wrong i did have an emo phase and i am NOT transphobic. i'm literally engaged to a trans man. but it is really really obvious. so if someone is any of the above i would just not interact with them on social media. or if i had to be with them in real life i would try my best to not get close to them. because even though i'm a nice person obviously we're not a good match and i wouldn't enjoy being around you honestly.
also people seem to think it's quirky to not be white? ESPECIALLY asian. that shit makes me so mad. like i wasn't called a chink and a dog eater my entire life just for your white ass to pretend to be me. it's so bad with japanese and korean especially. the weaboos and koreaboos. like wtf. people always are pretending to be asian online in things like roblox and shit. like last time i checked 99% of the world wasn't japanese. naming themselves things like yuki and megumi or whatever when your name might as well be amanda. and there is NOTHING wrong with being amanda!! love that for yourself!!! and no offense but weebs make me cringe so bad too. yes i have watched anime and i really do like it but you don't see me flaunting it as my only personality trait. there's also a (even if its subtle) japanese preference in them. it's really true. they believe that japanese things are superior. even small things like soap or water. and they think japanese has better words too. konnichiwa is cuter than hello. watagashi is better than cotton candy. nadenade makes more sense than stroke. like no it doesn't. appreciate what you have. im half japanese half korean so i have the "trauma starter pack" of growing up mixed and an immigrant. it's just hurtful and dumb and downright obnoxious to see garbage like this be considered normal.
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I can't stand gender appropriation. Being a woman is more than hair and makeup.
ReplyIt’s an ego thing. They are consumed with their own self importance.
I don’t agree with the trans movement. I feel like I, as a woman, my gender is being discriminated against, that women fought for their rights for a very long time only to have them stripped from us again.
I went to the hospital for an ultrasound. I am now labelled a birthing person, not a pregnant woman. I am a person with a uterus. Not a woman. My gender is slowly and surely being stripped away from me to make way for someone who believes they ought to be me. Yet to become me, they have to take my rights away. My right to be and be labelled as a mother, a pregnant woman, my right to be a biological female.
I have no issue with gay people, love is love, does not matter who it’s with.
I have no issue with trans people, you want to be male? You want to be female? Okay, then go do that, you have my support. But don’t strip away my gender on your journey.
ReplyWhy do you assume their gender journey has anything to do with yours? Trans people are not taking our rights. And the ability to get pregnant does not define a woman
ReplyQuestion: how can you be gay but engaged to a trans person.
Either you aren’t gay, and you are in a relationship with a biological female who identifies as a male. Which is you are male would mean you aren’t gay because your attraction is to a biological female and all the hair/makeup that goes with it.
Or..
You are in a relationship with a biological male who identifies as female. Which means you would no longer be gay, because you would be in a relationship with someone pretending to be female. Who acts, dresses and I assuming wants to look and act as feminine as possible. Which means you again would be attracted to a female.
So I don’t understand how you can be gay, but in a relationship with a trans person. Unless you are admitting that the trans person is their biological gender assigned to them in the womb and not the gender they woke up and decided they wanted to be. In that case that’s transphobia. At least that’s how people are labelled when they question a trans person gender.
Replyi dont think i said i was gay. i reread my post and i said i was queer. i like all genders. why would i be transphobic and then be engaged to a trans man?
ReplyTrans agenda is a mental illness. Pronouns are unnecessary. I don’t care whether you are straight or gay, I don’t think love can be labelled. Some people love men, some women, others only live themselves.
We live in a world where everyone is striving for attention. Parents are working 60 hour weeks just to pay the bills, they don’t have the time to dedicate to their children, because they are working to feed them. This leads the children into the World Wide Web. Which is just peer pressure but on a global scale, children are like sponges and will do or say anything that they deem will make them more popular which in turn will grant them an easier ride through life. They will hop on any bandwagon that seem new and cool.
Replyit's also young people. and what do you get when you have a generation of teenage females (at birth at least) addicted to their phones? this apparently. and with the dyed hair and weird skirts and intense eyeliner there is no way i'm taking you seriously.
You won’t take a female seriously because she wears a weird skirt and eyeliner and she’s her hair:
Yet you support trans? Who for their gender wear weird clothes, dye their hair and wear makeup.. often over the top.
Misogyny
Replyyou probably wont see this but im a woman. i reread this since i wrote it when i had a concussion but i dont really get what i meant about eyeliner and stuff. i would take someone seriously even if they were wearing eyeliner or something? i dont know but this is really confusing to me even though i wrote this myself. im not misogynistic but i do support trans people. even if my post doesnt seem like that i do.
ReplyWell dude. Maybe you can relate to how hard it was to come to grips with things for the first thing. I don’t think the amount of people with tendencies towards being trans has changed, but acceptance has. Can def relate to the race thing, it’s weird
ReplyYou can’t be gay and in a relationship with a trans person.
A woman is a woman. A man is a man. You can’t change genders.
Replyi agree with some of your points (like treating mental illnesses like a quirk is wrong, the fetishization of asian people), but you're not gonna gain cool points for hating on people. people aren't coming out as trans because it's a trend, but because it's now becoming more accepted. trans people have always exisited, but now society is more open to them and rightfully so. attention seeking and being proud of something that was once shunned are two different things. also, the fact that you wouldn't take someone seriosuly bc they have "dyed hair" says a lot about your character. no one is dressing for you, grow up. you keep trying to shit on "young people" for their behavior, yet you said this"even though i'm a nice person obviously we're not a good match and i wouldn't enjoy being around you honestly." an immature statement, if i do say so myself. there's more to people than what they wear.
Replyi think i just said that because it's the internet and people can say whatever they want and nobody can confirm it or anything. if i met a trans person in real life i would not ever question the fact that they are the gender that they have transitioned to. but i've also seen too many people on the internet who claim to be trans and then in real life say that they are cis, not in a closetting way either. like there was that girl on tumblr who was saying she was a trans girl then she deleted all her posts and claimed that she never said that and was cis. bc she wanted clout. so i guess this is a me issue really. and honestly idk what i meant about the dressing part. im not trying to make myself look better or anything but i guess this post was unbridled rage without me thinking.
ReplyTo be honest I think neuro divergent gay etc in their bio is all for attention and trying to look cool to others. It shows their insecurities. I really don't care what people are or their issues are as long your chill.
ReplyYou can’t be a gay person in a relationship with a trans.
Let’s assume you are male.
You are in a relationship with a biological male. That makes you gay. You would become straight of your partner transitioned to a female because you also would have to transition.
Or
Your in a relationship with a biological female who has transitioned into a man, but she still has a vagina. Either way it makes you straight not gay.
You have to transition too. Just like real women have their gender taken away, you have your sexuality stripped from you.
Replythis is the OP: a lot of comments said that i said i was gay? i never said that once, i said i was queer. im bi but i hate labels. i never said i was gay that makes no sense.
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