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6 months ago · 6 · Friends, +2


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I have a friend whom we used to talk a lot to. Now i feel awkward whenever i want to message her. I'm afraid of being too much or look overly obsessive or something. Is there a tip for texting that would make her interested in texting me as it did in the past. I really need some advice this has being my concern for a long time.

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  • Novni Guest · 6 months ago

    Maybe tell her you feel awkward and see if she has anything to say

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    • laura_seven · 6 months ago

      Seems risky tbh. What if it makes things weird. Would love to know what she has to say tho.

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  • Novni Guest · 6 months ago

    Did you naturally drift apart or did you do something that they weren’t happy with and if you did you make an effort in making amends or did you just leave it as it is awkward if you truly want to be friends again make an effort if it doesn’t work it doesn’t work at least u tried instead of taunting yourself with what if, and if they find u obsessive or weird it wasn’t meant to be

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    • laura_seven · 6 months ago

      More like naturally. The hype isn't there like it used to be. Ok, imma try being friends again, the problem is idk how or what to say honestly. But I'll try thanks.

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  • Novni Guest · 6 months ago

    Just talk casually. Like how ya been how ya been doing? Go from there.

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  • Novni Guest · 6 months ago

    Ask her why she has stopped texting you so much.

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