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So, I have been dating this guy for 2 yrs now and we have had our rough times.Very recently, he got busy with his family and friends and had almost no time for me. In this time, I realized how my entire life surrounded him and him only- no friends, not even family. So, I decided to try to make it my own life and do things that I would like. This included getting in touch with a guy who had a crush on me back in high school. It's not big of a deal and I wouldn't care much but my bf would. He might stop talking to me, Ignore me and that will lead us to fight on a big level. I ask everyone for advice on what I should do- should I tell or just let things be the way it is know and see how long it lasts
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ReplyIf you're in a relationship, then you shouldn't be hanging out with someone who use to like you. And I say that for a couple reasons. If you know it would upset your boyfriend, then you shouldn't do it or at least talk to him about it first before you do. It sounds like the reasons you're getting back in touch with that guy is to make your boyfriend jealous or because you're lonely and are seeking attention. And with both of those reasons, you need sit down with your boyfriend and work things out or break-up, instead of going to someone else. Also, what about that guy, what if he starts redeveloping feelings for you, and you're already taken, that's not fair to him.
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Replywhy did you approach to the other guy in the first place? it's like you're giving him hope.
Give your bf sometime, if it continues, let him now about your feelings
Replyif you went back to the other guy just because you feel lonely cause your BF is busy , is not really a healthy behavior or an honest gesture to do , he liked you in the past but don't give him hope now ...
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