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So there’s two guys I like, who both like me back. The first is two years older and I met in person. He invited me out to dinner and we got along well, he’s very respectful and noble and I was happy going out with him. Guy 2 I met online and is a couple months older. Despite never meeting, he gives me butrerflies and we communicate very well. He’s very descriptive and we instantly clicked. We share like the same personality. However, they both have asked me out in terms of saying just recently and I don’t know who to pick.. guy 1 I like because he’s very respectful, cute, and enjoy his company. However guy 2 is more atractive and we get along really well. The only issue is that he loves a couple states away and I don’t know if the same attraction will be there in person.
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Either you or he will have to travel or meet halfway to be with each other to find out how you both click with one another.
ReplyDoes it have to be one or the other?
ReplyI would give the first guy a chance seeing that you can get to know him in real life.
ReplyI would suggest to go for the 1st Guy since you know him in person and you also mention he is respectful and that matters the most.
ReplyIt's not really a love triangle since they don't know about each other, unless they do but based on your post it seems that these 2 guys do not know you are entertaining the other.
It is always best to be open and honest with people who are trying to have a romantic relationship with you, meaning tell them that you are not looking for a committed relationship AND that you are talking to other people. This will reveal who truly wants to be in your life, because some people will run for the exit if you tell them that you are talking to other people. As they say, "the truth shall set you free".
Also, beware of people you meet online who you've never met in person. You might get an ugly surprise.
Best of luck.
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1 Thessalonians 5:11
Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing.
Mark 12:28-31
And Christ Jesus said the 2 greatest commandments are:
Love God first and foremost.
Love your fellow-being as you love yourself.
From following or not following these, all good or evil cascades, respectively.
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