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Can't believe i'm writing this, but i don't have any reason to be sorry. My fiance and I have been together for 9 years, we met in college, he went off to med school, i started a new career and went into nursing. We finally moved in together a few months ago after doing long distance and such for a long time. Naturally, the next step we wanted to take was get engaged and so he proposed this summer. His cousin, who has been with his fiancee for 4 years now, also got engaged about 2 months before us. Mind you, he knew it was going to happen for us this year. Can't be surprised. Anyways, so my fiance and I finally set a date and all of a sudden, his cousin's fiancee blocks me on social media. I confronted her about it, i had a feeling it had to do with the fact that we booked our date a week before theirs. We're not close, I wouldn't really consider her a friend but we get along well with each other. She had the nerve to tell me she felt hurt and blindsided because we booked ours a week before theirs. They are getting help from his parents for the cost of theirs, and we're paying for our own wedding. She said "maybe a heads up next time"..... I find that statement ludicrous considering the entire time they planned theirs, they essentially kept us in the dark, not that I cared but definitely was not reciprocated. I felt upset too, but they did not come to our engagement party (a small backyard party under 30 people). They're having theirs soon with 100 people at a venue. They have both turned this into a competition, as if it needs to be. My point is 1) Im happy for them, and 2) why should i ever have to consider her opinion? the fact that she said that to me floored me, i said no, i don't have to give anyone a heads up, it's our life! whatever happened to people being supportive of one another! as much as i don't want to go to their party, i will, because the level of immaturity is crazy
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Replyi know right? lol
ReplyYou keep doing you ❤️ sounds like she's being entitled and over the top. Blocking on social media is probably a good thing for everyone. And
.. Congratulations to you both for your studies and your engagement. If she says anymore to you, just tell her you have dibbs as you've been together twice as long as them 😁❤️
Replythank you <3
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