Why do I feel this way

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• jamesdeans01 · 2 years ago

  Nothing. You just feel a little bored and lonely right now. Ok so when you get this 'relationship', you will be quite pleased for a while, but it won't last. The pleasure you will feel will come from you relaxing for a bit from the chase - your desire temporarily ending. The satisfaction will not last because you will assume that the 'relationship' caused it and you will look it to keep it going.

  If you were promised a relationship that would make you miserable, would you want it? I don't think so. What you really want is to be happy and at peace. One of the major flaws in our human nature is that we believe that preferred objects, circumstances, wealth, activities, and / or relationship can deliver this lasting peace, love, and happiness. These coveted feelings are not earned, produced, acquired, provided, achieved, or possessed.

  Peace, love, and happiness have always been and will always be essentially who we are. They shine through our being and energize our actions when we realize that this is so.

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  • kisshug19-02 · 2 years ago

    thank you but im still lost with my self

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• AllHailTheGlowCloud · 2 years ago

  You have a sexual side and you don't have an outlet to express it. There's nothing wrong with that.

  I'm curious about the relationships you've had. I think the desire for hot sex is a different category of need from the desire for affection and good company, although obviously if you can find all of those with one person, it's a wonderful thing.

  Don't be afraid to explore more casual hook-ups or more sex-focused interactions, if that seems to you like the best way to get your needs met. Just be honest about what it is you're looking for. You will face no judgement from like-minded consenting adults who also want to get off.

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  • kisshug19-02 · 2 years ago

    this is my post you responded to. My relationships have been nothing but sexual and I don't mind that one bit to be honest but I feel like I haven't found someone who can bring me to my knees and let me have it... lol idk what I'm saying I just don't have the outlet I need, I have this pent-up sexual desire. I feel like there is something more but I don't know how to get it out. what I'm feeling may be something deep an dark in my soul...

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    • AllHailTheGlowCloud · 2 years ago

      If you have a specific fantasy to fulfil, you might be better off exploring your local sex shop for some masturbatory toys, or loading up a FetLife profile.

      There's nothing wrong with exploring yourself sexually, and it might help you pinpoint what you're looking for when it comes to your next partner.

      I wish you all the best on your search!

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• Leahs_world · 2 years ago

  Nothing is wrong with you. You are just finding someone that fits your description and you are just exploring, there is nothing wrong with that.

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  • kisshug19-02 · 2 years ago

    im just not sure how to find that someone i mean i know you cant just look for someone like that its not that easy but im just lost

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