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I'm supposed to make the first move

1 month ago · 0 · Loneliness, +3


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I'm a woman who just joined a dating/donor service, and while some men liked me, I've had to make first contact and was ignored. I'm losing hope. I only have two years left before I have force myself to be single. I won't enjoy it, but it's expected of unwanted women like me.

But I also still have plans to commit suicide to avoid being a crazy cat lady. All I can say is that I tried... tried making friends, tried dating, tried volunteering... I have no words for how despicable the human species is right now.

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