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So i'm 32 female and i've been married to the same man for 10 years. we were high school sweethearts, but there is an issue. Over the years he has slowly gotten less and less intimate with me and for a while i thought he was cheating on me but we talked about it and i looked through his phone, and track his location and theres just no possible way he was cheating. But i still wondered why he wasn't being intimate with me. One night we were at his younger brother's house having dinner with him and his family. My husband and i got too drunk to drive so we stayed the night. By the end of the night his parents had left and my husband was passed out upstairs in the guest bedroom. I was helping my brother in law clean up the dishes and we got to talking. I ended up telling him about my intimacy issues, and all of a sudden he made a pass at me. I didn't say no and i decided to let it happen. This happened 2 years ago and I'm still seeing his brother til this day. I know its awful but my husband won't get intimate and as a women i need some of those things in my life. But i can't divorce him because I'm still in love with him, it's just now i'm also in love with his brother. Please help me, i need all the advice i can get right now.
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I can understand that you're going through a tough situation rn. It sounds like you're feeling conflicted between ur husband and his brother. It's important to remember that honesty and open communication are key in any relationship. Hav u considered talking to ur husband about ur needs and concerns? It might be helpful to seek couples therapy to address the intimacy issues and explore ways to improve ur relationship, n being involved with ur husband's brother while still married can lead to even more complications and hurt feelings. It might be helpful to take a step back and reflect on what u truly want and what will make u happy in the long run.
ReplyYour husband's brother doesn't care about your husband. Is that someone you want to have sex with?
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