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I'm not unattractive but I'm certainly not a 10 either. I'm super intelligent, doing my final year in Electrical Engineering and I have been told by most people that I am kind and generous. Yet I'm still single.
I'm 25 now, I wanted to be married by 30 but the way things are going, I doubt it will happen. It hurts. I pretend to be unbothered but it really hurts. My friends and sisters are in happy relationships. I'm watching people start building families and I feel jealous to be honest.
Every man I meet ends up treating me badly if not ghosting. It's like the universe doesn't want to see me happy because the last man (and truly one of the few) to treat me like a queen died merely a month into out relationship.
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Don't be discouraged sweetheart.
From what you do, I know you really deserve to be loved. You tried and you did well.
Surely many men are interested and praise you because you are so determined, hardworking and kind. That said, if it doesn't fit, so be it. Surely God has prepared someone better for you.
And no one is too old for someone else to love. Because those who are even older than you and who have been divorced, they get married.
Maybe you don't know, but it could be that they like you but think you're too good for them. You look too high to reach for them.
I have a female friend when I was 18. She is very smart, beautiful, has a good personality, and is also rich. Strangely, no one ever asked her out. Like you, many people approach her, but don't date her, because they are already insecure about my friend.
Believe me, even though you think it's too late, there will be someone better than them for you...
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ReplyI appreciate you so much. Thank you for your beautiful message. I will wait for God's blessing upon my life. May the Lord Bless you ❤
ReplyI am in the same boat except I am 22 and the love of my life died in 2022 after having been together for 2 years. Honestly, I know the pain is astronomical and it may be hard to function some days. The important thing to remember is that life has a very strange way of not always giving you what you want, but instead giving you what you need. The hard experiences we go through are learning experiences that we learn from and apply the lessons we learned to any applicable future situation we can. Be yourself, love yourself and I am sure everything will turn out just fine. You got this sweetheart
ReplyMy deepest condolences about your partner 🫂❤ I've struggled with the death of my late partner for over a year, even though we only dated a month. I can imagine how much worse it must be for you. I'll take your advice to heart. Everything will work out in the end.
ReplyGirl, you are a queen you don't need a man to tell you that, and trust me everything happens when it is supposed to for now stay focused on your career everything will fall back in the right place when it is supposed to be. Stay strong you will be fine
ReplyAttractiveness fades over time, even for Hollywood celebrities. You are doing the best thing with your time - obtaining an education. In my humble observation, a man should chase a woman in the game of romance - the old cat and mouse game. One thing I've seen that might work is a woman frequents places where they type of man she appreciates tends to regularly visit. There are all types of hobby meetups, sports leagues, volunteer opportunities that lend themselves to places where romantic love can spark. Best of luck.
Courtesy notice: the following includes a reference to a book that contains writings over 2000 years old which are mostly parables about human nature, both vile human nature as well as moral human nature, parables that are meant to teach us to learn and grow, including the teachings of Christ Jesus. No religion required, and better yet: no public displays of devotion required, although the former and latter are admirable if practiced freely out of one's own free will and without the threat of being beheaded. Some bullies will label this "trolling", so "change the channel" now if of no interest to you.
1 Thessalonians 5:11
Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing.
Mark 12:28-31
And Christ Jesus said the 2 greatest commandments are:
Love God first and foremost.
Love your fellow-being as you love yourself.
From following or not following these, all good or evil cascades, respectively.
Love...that powerful, invisible, intangible force that cannot be denied; even atheists live and die by it.
Mary, Mother of Christ, intercede for us with your prayers, now, and always.
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