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Just curious to know some of your thoughts...
What do you prefer to choose,
Career?
or
Romantic Love?
Or Both?
And Why?
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ReplyBoth, for sure.
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ReplyI'd choose love. A career, you can retire from. A career is conditional on superficial aspects of a person, perhaps the way they look; the languages they speak; their availability and location; and how old they are. A professional career is also a reflection of your privilege, as not many people can afford to pursue academia or commit to years of study at an institution of higher education.
However, love is not so discriminatory. Love is not so demanding. Love is something anybody can afford to have and do, and most times, it is less taxing and more rewarding than a career.
When human beings win awards, and titles and are accredited in their respective fields, whichever field of work that may be - they give thanks to their superiors, professors, co-writers, production teams, directors and all sources of inspiration. And then, they thank those who loved them best and those whose love they couldn't live without. Love always gets the final mention, as it is the foundation from which one can begin to dream of better things.
That is just my opinion.
ReplyBoth. They're separate however. Keep one out of the other.
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I'd say both. At first I was about to say love, maybe because I am in love with this guy, but I also want to choose my career and go on that road. I believe that I can be with both and be happy with those choices. I'm in a very good and stable relationship that I'm able to be successful in the career I want to go to. I've been dating for almost a year, and the guy I am with helps me go on with my career, and has been my number 1 supporter throughout, and he's happy that I've made it far. I'm trying to major in computer science and this is the career path I have chosen when I was young and now older I still want to face this path and continue from here on. I really do believe you can have both and definitely make it through life with both of these. It may be biased for me since I have both and I'm somehow managing to keep those 2 things in my life.
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