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On December 8, 2023. I have met someone who has made me feel safe, calm, loved, welcomed, and just has accepted me for who I am. He has been my savior, my soul. My boyfriend, who is now my fiance. (We are both in a long distance relationship, but have talked about moving in together very soon). He accepted me for who I am. I can be very dorky, weird, and sometimes annoying. But that never stopped the fact of him loving me for who I am. We actually met & talked between December 6-7 of 2023. I texted him around 2am my time, (why was I awake at 2am, don't ask). But at that time, he was working a very late night-shift. I wanted to message him more, to get to know him better, but then again, I had to get some sleep since it was already so late. When I woke up, I kinda forgot about him for awhile until I opened the app that I messaged him in. I asked how he was, we got to know each other more, then I asked him for his socials. He gave me his & I gave him mine. We messaged each other & got to know more about what we liked, disliked, our music genre, etc. The one main thing I wanted to do was call him. So whenever we were both free, I had the courage to call him. I was very awkward at first but I didn't know what to expect. The one thing I didn't like was that he called me "babe" when we were just friends. I got mad at him and we both ended the call. He told me that he would give me space and I just said "okay". I know I got mad over someone I only known for a day or two, but don't you think you shouldn't call someone "babe" when you two have only been friends for a short amount of time? When he did leave me alone, both him & I were going back to our phones and seeing who text back. We both wanted to, but just never had the courage too. When he did finally text back, I gave him "girlfriend vibes" when I said "you left me all alone." At that point, he was falling in love with me. Both my fiance & I came from relationships that weren't treating us right. Either we both get cheated on from our previous partners or they would fall out of love. I met a lot of his family members. Most of them were really kind and supportive about him finding love, and someone who didn't cheat or fell out of love. Some of his family and close friends were really supportive of him. Some were a bit confused about why he chose a girl who was probably a billion miles away from him, but what he always said to me was that he would wait. He would wait until I was ready of my own to do anything. I have met some of his aunts & uncles through video call. They were very sweet and they gave me compliments on how pretty I was. My main worry was video calling his mom. She had very mixed feelings about me. She would like me for one minute & then not like me. I understand from her point of view, but at the same time, I know she wanted to support her son. But after a while of getting to know the real me, she really likes me & I'm glad she does. I kinda felt like God or fate decided to put us two together. It was like this person wasn't getting treated right & this person was coming from an abusive/toxic relationship. I'm just really happy that I have found someone who loves me. Don't think that I did everything wrong or put the blame on me. Coming from a toxic relationship to a very healthy one, it does feel different, but yes, it feels very warm & safe. I really love it. I can finally be free, and not have to worry about someone telling me that I can't do this or I shouldn't hang out with this person. I told my fiance about how I came from an abusive/toxic relationship & he respected me about how I was in the past. He accepted every flaw I had about myself. He loved every flaw I had. Everything that I wasn't so sure about, he made me feel confident about myself. I was able to feel calm & loved myself for who I was. Sometimes it doesn't take love to find out who you really want. It just takes the right person who can accept every flaw you have about yourself. I am happy that I am his fiancee & I can't wait for us to get married in the future but also, not have anyone to judge us. Yes I know someone in the comments is probably gonna say, "why did you say yes to marry him so fast?" We both said at the same time, "it felt right." We both knew we wanted someone to love each other for who we are & who wouldn't judge about what we did or whom we hung out with. Yes, we can be a little jealous and a bit overprotective at times, but that's just how relationships work. You kinda have to balance it out together. Work through it. A relationship shouldn't be one sided. It should be two. You must work together to accomplish anything. I still have a lot to learn in life & I can finally do it with someone I love & value most. This was the love story of how I met my fiance and I wouldn't change it for a thing. Love comes and goes, but with the right person, it will stay and grow.
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