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I was sure about this guy. I love him a lot. I'm very conservative girl but I kissed him as I was thinking he's my partner.
I was so happy with him.
He was happy with me. Everything was fine. I saw my future with him. I don't even think of any other guy than him .
Then he left me by saying he doesn't feel the same as he used to do. He doesn't love me as a lover.
He refused being in relationship with me.
I begged him. He said he can't stay by force.
He's not even responding to my msgs and calls now.
I miss him a lot.
I know his feelings are gone but now I'm so attached with him. All my dreams seem shattered after he left. My life is empty without him.
I feel like he slammed a door at my face. Even though I was Begging.
Why some peoples' feelings are temporary?
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Not every one like the guy but ,some people can't feel that same think for
us ,I understand and respect your feeling's but when the guy can't
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ReplyYes, unfortunately I think love is temporary. Basically for everyone. The difference is most couples fall out of love at the same time (like 20-25 years) and they become more like friends than lovers. It's unusual for someone to fall out of love so fast like him. He sounds too unreliable. I know it hurts now, but it's better that you found out now instead of wasting years with him.
None of this is your fault. You never know how long someone's feelings will last. Everyone seems to believe in forever at the beginning, but that's relative.
ReplyIf he had have stayed you would have had a miserable time being with someone who doesn't want you. Lucky he went and now you can find someone else.
ReplyTiming is everything in many things. In my humble experience this includes committed relationships. When feelings are driven by selfishness, they can be temporary. And many of us are incredibly selfish when we are young and healthy. Stay strong and keep faith, eventually when you are physically and emotionally available you will find romantic love with someone who has the maturity to commit to a romantic relationship. Best of luck.
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1 Thessalonians 5:11
Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing.
Mark 12:28-31
And Christ Jesus said the 2 greatest commandments are:
Love God first and foremost.
Love your fellow-being as you love yourself.
From following or not following these, all good or evil cascades, respectively.
Love...that powerful, invisible, intangible force that cannot be denied; even atheists live and die by it.
Mary, Mother of Christ, intercede for us with your prayers, now, and always.
And after our worst deeds - never forget God forgives us when we repent through Christ Jesus.
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