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I am just so sick of feeling like I am behind on everything constantly. I’m not done with my bachelors until next fall but I feel like I should’ve had everything done by now. I look back on my notes from the year I started college and just feel dread. Haven’t made an album, haven’t written a book, haven’t made a clothing line. There’s just so much I want to do besides school. I’m good at school, and I’ll be successful, but I just don’t want to lose myself in it all. I’ve done lots of things by halves. I’ve written two hundred pages of songs organized by subject matter, and some small demos, but I haven’t made the album. I have eight book drafts, but no finished book. I have tons of sketches but no actual patterns for the clothing line. I feel insane. I know consciously it may not really matter when I’m literally going to be a lawyer, but it matters to me. I have so much to get done and I feel like I’m behind even though it’s not being requested by anyone but me. I want to see what I can do and I feel like I’ve failed already. I think it would make me feel fulfilled but I just feel empty having not done any of it.
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U r amazing. I am just a talentless person who dreams of success while scrolling the phone. But u had done ,much more than that. u will succeed
ReplyYou have done too much at once and should do one thing at a time so that you will finish what it is that you are doing. It is not good to jump from one partly done thing only to jump again and again to other things that are never completed.
I suggest that when you finish law school and are settled in your work then finish the album, and when you are happy with that finish writing a book, then after that go onto the clothing line no matter how long this all takes. Don't try to do it all at once.
ReplyI think most successful people feel this way, that's why they are successful. It's called being driven. It helps to sit and think about all the things you have done. I do this too, btw. A few years ago I bought myself a ring because I had achieved some major goals in my life (Ph.D., millionaire, full professor) and I need the reminder, 'cause I too sit and don't think I've done enough. I also have a few books drafted and not finished. I had to learn, when people came to my house, to not say 'yah, but it's not done yet, I have this and this and this to do'. Now I just say 'thank you' when they say they like it. It's hard, you have to work at it.
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