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Women who gave men a second chance. How did it work out for you?
2 weeks ago · 4 · Need Advice, +2
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My ex was a verbally abusive drunkard who dumped and blocked me. He also sent me a string of insults before blocking me. Then he moved on to another woman the very same day we broke up. I was hurt when this happened. Lowkey distraught and embarrassed because my desperation to make things work had led me to ignore red flags. Also, because I had been warned many times that he'd hurt me.
Recently he unblocked me and apologized for everything. He says he got help and he's sober now. I've missed him to be honest. I never stopped loving him. But I'm scared he probably hasn't changed.
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Hi there, I'm neither a woman nor someone who gave anyone a second chance. But I'm an ex-alcoholic. I just wanted to say that alcohol *really* changes a personality. Alcohol and drugs can turn an angel into a demon like flipping a switch--obviously not in all cases but definitely in many. So IF (big 'if'!) he is totally sober, I'm talking at least a year, then it might be worth giving him a second chance.
One thing you should mentally review... Was he drunk (or in the throes of alcoholism) all the times he was cruel to you? In other words, before alcohol entered the picture, were there ever signs of an abusive personality? If he was a good person before the alcohol, then I think it's definitely worth revisiting a relationship... Don't dive in the deep end just yet but it might be ok to test the waters. Good luck to you!
ReplyEveryone deserves a second chance so give him and yourself one. If he really hasn't changed dump him.
ReplyI feel like you already have the answer and just want to confirm it here. Whatever your decision is, always think of your peace of mind dear.Does he give you security and assurance that he will never do it again or he just wants you back because he knows that you will recieve him again.
Whatever your decision may be, it's up to you but please think it through like a 100x :D
ReplyIm sorry thats happened to you i wish the best tho
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